What should I make jealous for Freunde-Baby?

First from, I am completely grateful for my baby! She/it has a load of problems, that are stressful. She/it can gegenwärtig doesn\'t eat beside mouth and has a feeding tube, that stinks, because always nurses I through the fact a small devestated and wanted to feel itself, that I can, \'t. you has Robin Reihenfolge and wills the most, you have difficulties, the talk, and some development postponements probably, she/it has Velocardiofacial syndrome.

Some of my background is with it. JedenfallsJedenfalls, my friends, who have all good offspring, während mine most of her/its/their 3 months of living of the hospital was.

My friend came over yesterday and nursed her/its/their toddler, and I became so sad; I guess that it was jealousy. Her/its/their baby fängt also at to talk, that were cute, but me over my own baby really sad did. I weiß, that it is bad to be jealous and I, tries to be glad for her/it/them, I was, before my baby was born, but now, I feel that I should dissociate myself from her because it makes me so depressed to see her/its/their glad child, especcially nursing.

Am I wrong to feel like it, and if, so that I should make what for it? I should tell my friend, thereß she/it me saddens, and that is why across she/it very much isnlud t as it one or I should stink it upward and should get done with it? As itself too beschäftigen? Help.

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My daughter was born with a gap and there are so many matters that she/it doesn\'t make "normal", that children do, for these and I could not nurse both. Yes it is normally, itself sorrowfully too fühlen, but you must try also those particular moments and the matters and must see, you have with your child, that others don\'t have or take for granted with her/its/their children.

Speak with your friend and had known her/it/them, as you feel,... should not stink "it you definitely upward and should get done" with it... this will make it only worse permanently. 100 percent 1 voices saves to it! ! RSS

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from Kylie OK Jeni...

On the healthy babies of your friends jealous or this sorrowfully is being, that your baby has problems, two different matters.

I don\'t believe that you are jealous,... simply sad, that you cannot do some of the same matters with your baby.

You/they didn\'t want that your friend takes the trouble to keep away you from her/its/their life if the situation was inverted.

Although your baby has some problems and maybe some has in the future, she/it is a very particular child, and was given to you for a reason.

Bring complete joy into nursing her/it/them on which means, that you can, even if you cannot nurse her/it/them. Bring joy into the Glück from your friends, who have baby, also. You/they are all very blessed.

from Yofault M, you steal the baby? lol