WasWas should do I with my toddler while birth gives I with the hospital?

I am due in 2 months with my second, and my first will be 22 months old. Yesterday evening, I woke up with 4am to pee, and because any reason started, over this to think, which we will do with our son, if I get labor, and I began because it had serious separation worry (that the middle of the night will cause for the being more badly by it of course). ich\'m a stay-at-home mommy and the Lfears I was separated from my son, most of one day was once, and he/it was with my husband the whole day. My family is alive over the country and my husband halbwegs\'s-Familie is 2 hours away. My Ehemann\'s-Bruder, woman and 3 children, or shares at least from this family, offered to come out, if they work out it können, or maybe my mother-in-law, but from our good friends, nobody only would be really capable in city to come over and, to hang a little one with our son for it out, some has young children of her/its/their own one, any work and my good friend probably from state for a wedding.

I want to be really exactly capable, him/it during the heavy work and the birth looks at to leave somebody and then has back him/it with me and my husband, whether it is with the hospital or the home. ICHMart of a private person and is not comfortable different with people than my husband and my hospital personnel, that see me in labor/delivery or even nurse, or I hätte only my son with me the whole time, if he/it could be supervised, and I could be comfortable. I place everyone auf\'t-MANGEL, that f 2 hoursür such a short time to drive here out and to then take the trouble, to fight with my husband, to tell them, I want that they go home. Natthey wanted ürlich to ooh and aah over the baby, but I want a small babymoon-Zeit to bind our new family around without others. OhßerAußer of the fact, that newborns drink the whole time long at the breast, and with the hospital ich\'d must throw out visitors and at home I in the bedroom at me would pass because I never have been comfy that does it before somebody different as my husband.

Accidental other info: meinmein son still works as a nurse if he/it first wakes up in the morning. Er\'d probably is okay without it, but I don\'t want, thereß he/it still and therefore disaccustoms, I don\'t want that he/it misses it, more than as soon as... if I finish to need a c-Teil, I could him/it and my husband, even keep with me during the night during my hospital stay so that he/it gets this.

Do they do hospital nurses, whom I can put in an eye on my son to keep? =) This wäre for me ideally. Otherwise, ich\'m only not certainly something, to do. Any ideas?

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Knows IchIch, that I will deliver with them with the hospital, have you unrestricted visit for siblings. I place auf\'t wants, thereß my son at all with the hospital unsupervised is, and would not try, him/it during labor/delivery without somebody of him/it, that essentially thinks, that I won\'t have him/it there), to have there expressly looking at. I weiß that he/it in with me can live, and if I had another c-Teil, me, \'d has him/it there only during the night, not the whole day. Our morning care cuddles asleep, not disgusting only in the bed for itself half. I nursed the same way for him/it and lay down, after my c-Teil with him/it. But we are everything, docs/midwives, quite confidently, thereß ich\'m a big VBAC-Bewerber and the most likely will have success.

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SieSie must ask with the hospital, you have the baby on that occasion. AlsAls I me, that was learned, my daughter had, thereß she/it it siblings, to stay in the room with mommy and baby during the night, doesn\'t allow. It was not, a problem für me causes, that my mommy looked at our son, but I never had during the night the not parting intended from another child stay at her/it/them. What, if I nobody hätte, to look at him/it?

BTW... we didn\'t plan this way for him/it, but baby came so fast out that old son in a chair in the corner of the delivery room my 20 month, the cookies eats, sat, as baby was born! I didn\'t has each other to look at him/it there, während baby came, and I was not, sends to my hubby gonna to waiting room, while I had the baby. What went on, was completely unbewu for him/itßt!

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That is a big history for your children to be said if they are older! Part of me hopes, thereß work only fast is, so that we must keep our son with us "by chance", but I know that we need a plan for somebody to look at him/it. I think only on the moment, thereRecognizes of ß he/it and shows and says, "baby!" which will nevertheless happen!

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through * from this politics of your hospital\' depends, maybe your son is allowed not even in L&D.

You/they really need a babysitter for it if you deliver. A hospital is not suitable a healthy one been 2 years long old to spend the night. He/it won\'t understand, thereß Mommy can, \'t-Krankenschwester and game with him/it, and maybe he/it disturbs other patients in the middle of the night. If you have a c-Teil, how will you nurse a disgusting 2 year old right after important surgical intervention?

And something, if he/it has a cold by chance, if you deliver? He/it wouldn\'t is even allowed in the hospital.

MeinMein son was almost 4, as I was in the hospital on bedrest, and he/it wanted to play with all buttons on the bed, and my meal eats, and he/it was bored, and that was during the half hour visits.

vonvon LuvMy2Gi... makes you this, which the rest of the world does and finds, that somebody, that took care of him/it, while you are in the hospital.

My first baby was 27 months, as second thinks was carried. all our friends also work, children have und/oder, some newborn at the moment. all our family is away 4 hours. We began advance on our plan months. We have two neighbors, who offered, to help if it is used for to even enter into the middle of the night if I went into the work. You/they were our support plan, as not I comfortable going her/it/them my zweijähriges alto with people doesn was, t really knows and wakes up particularly to them. But you müssen what you must do, does if you don\'t have any other possibilities. Anytime, we had also friends, who had a newborn, that offered, to come out, as I went into the work, they were so, you also divide from our support plan. My in-lawed relatives, that live 4 hours away, were ready on retrieval the last few weeks of my pregnancy and were fully mated and ready, to make at a Momente-Benachrichtigung. The support plan was until Großmutter, to have somebody there, and grandfather could arrive there.

Was not early i with my second fortunately. My in-lawed relatives planned, as she/it the day before my fälliges date had descended, and it worked out completely. As they arrived, I was in früher work. You/they were in time, itself about my daughter too kümmern, there, while we were in hospital. Therefore the severeal Hilfspläne I had spent Monate-Planung, was not used! LOL.

Her/its/their in-lawed relatives came, two hours is not so wide.

through kiddo235 my sister after law kept first 6 hours long my daughter (25 month), while I was induced with my son, lives she/it away 2 hours. After my son had been born, my husband went to get our daughter. You/they remained für a while, then went home.

Do you have a near friend, who would be ready, to keep him/it at home? PersI place auf\'t önlich believes, that your son should be with the hospital. He/it will be bored and will be bored, children seem to get in difficulties. Particularly, if you in work für a while is.

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