Why am I so excited that my wife wants to stop to nurse?

We nursed our baby since she/it was born, that is approximately two weeks ago. Our baby lost a small weight since leaving the hospital, but took through the nächsten child medical visit to. My wife found out this baby blues and Gefühle, as if she/it can continue silence no more with him/it. I fühle me, as if she/it must give him/it enough time to come out, the "plastered" grade and then she/it will feel better / more committed to it, with which to remain silence.

IchIch, that I want what is the best for my wife, wants at the best whats for our baby, but at the same time. Why I have Gefühle the anger / disappointment about the decision, to go to formula, that only lives? I look guiltily for it, so b,ös, to be, but kann\'t seems to help him/it. I am not bös on my wife, only with the situation. Is normal in such a way? Credits other Väter this experiences?

I want to be supporting, but doesn\'t help besides feeling, as if we didn\'t give this of enough time. It appears, thereß I itself exactly with the fact employs, will have to, we go to formula feed, I am simply shocked with my reaction and wanted to know whether other fathers found out this.

Thanks.

from Katy

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It is perfeclty-Normale in order to feel this. You/they muß a doctor see because das\'s beyond normal baby blues. Baby blues are something, which begins some days of postpartum and last 3-5 days normally in general. If she/it aufhört, to work as a nurse, and then late help gets, if her/its/their mind clarifies her/it/them, you, that she/it had stopped, become definately-Bedauern. She/it should fähig is they distribute the whole time with it to call her/its/their ob/gyn and to tell only the nurse at the telephone, that it depressed them, and will probably reclaim only one rule for her/it/them. 100 percent 1 voices saves to it! ! RSS

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from Anticipa.... baby blues should not cause nursing, and studies showed that mothers, who nurse, less probably are, postpartum-Depression, to develop.

from RSJ need a father, you don\'t know that you are gotten from daddies like many answers. Bemühen you itself, to encourage your wife. Nursing of Pwould eat on the whole mother\'s antibodies. Babies don\'t start, her/its/their own ones antiqueörper, to do, until they are 6 months.

beside Smurfy-Bergfrieden, he/it go and go your wife, could be interested for the knowledge, that less probably women, who nurse, are to be suffered from postpartum-Depression and to have more well mental and emotional health altogether. See this study you:

from the mom of chase, it is not exceptional for a baby to relaxed weight, after it carried indeed, it happens the most to all the baby. Her/its/their wife really should with her/its/their doctor over the baby blues, that it could be serious, speaks and she/it could go through PPD, a father can go also through it, naturally es\'s-Normale for you, that were excited about it, as you, that your baby is, wanted nurse, & all nutrients to give, that it can from it, is mother. Maybe you could help around the house with other matters, if not only therefore already your doing in order to help your wife from maybe her/it/them overpowered feels. And only you speak thereover with her, as you feel, & says you to her/it/them, she/it should talk with her/its/their doctor about suggestions.

from Ellen The, any help is the first thing, in order to do, to be procured for your wife. This is beyond the baby blues, and can be addressed with medication, that is sure, to take, während nursing. If the doctor doesn\'t weiß, which can is taken, certainly is this, you check with somebody of this as access to the book, "medications and the milk from mother in 2010" from Dr. Thomas Hale or checks with infantrisk, its web site.

Most women, who go through this, that stops, it later regret, to nurse. Often, they accuse nursing für her/its/their problems, but of course it doesn\'t nurse, it assumes the responsibilities of new motherhood, plus insomnia, plus hormones. Even if she/it aufhören, to nurse, they feel still overwhelmed because nothing changes otherwise.

I suspect that if one of mine, grown up, boys went through it, they had be the same feelings, as they know, like important nursing to human infants and mothers, and how it can change the dynamics of the mother baby interaction for the better. But maybe with any zusfor caustic-like support and a medication, your wife will be capable to continue. definitely if she/it our Büro would call, she/it would get support, therefore you could Internationalen things certified committee a lactation advisor La Leche-Verband leaders try or would find out.

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Hospital IBCLC and the group leader of mother 20+ years
Mommy to 3

wants both you as well as your wife what is the best for your baby, from Pippin. But your wife Müht itself also with PPD and the whole fatigue and the uncomfortableness of the nach-partum-Periode, therefore she/it, that also look at, ab\'s, to disaccustom as the easy way out.

, Without to know more about your relationship, and exactly this, with which your wife gets done, it is difficult to give good advice here. If you encourage her/it/them können, one, to remain little longer with it, then this, s what I would recommend. , You encourage, you don\'t berate, telephone call and LC, about agoto come over and to work together with her. Encourage her/it/them, her/its/their doctor about the PPD, over meds, to ask. , You/they are sure to use, während she/it nurses, and, of course, you prepare practical help in order to allow her/its/their stick with it. , You do the housework, Nichtf,ütterung-babycare, and so on, if baby is in a manger, you bring her/it/them for the night, lives, and brings small things for mommy.

During nursing only the ideal is, if her/its/their an occassional-Flasche, to become the most badly from it, will help, that would be also an appropriate compromise. As soon as it regained them any perspective, she/it can too ganztägigem silence return.

But, if everything is said and is done, they are HER/ITS/THEIR breasts, therefore it is her/its/their election. If she/it is decided, too entwöhnen, encouarge she/it, that disaccustomed gradually, so that she/it gets mastitis doesn\'t, and then, you continue.

by vs2008, maybe you are disappointed, but you got to be supporting from your wife. Birth of the child still excites dripping on Mama\'s\'s physical Stärke as well as psyche. PPD/blues can yearn in the end.
SieSie can encourage her/it/them to look at BF, while she/it to take Iit for treatment of the blues to the doctor, sufficiently usual is, although I didn\'t get it, as well as, to speak with a lactation advisor, to employ about itself with any questions, tells to BF.
If she/it cannot handle BF together with all other, that goes on, you support her/it/them in her/its/their decision.
Enjoy your new baby and be particular nice to new mommy. Glück!

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Mommy to a 8 month old

from Paige

Because of his/its low class hid answer

ah cause it makes ready you enjoyments, about lol on it, to see a baby, sucks (: