Is it cruel if I reject to travel so that the parents of my son\'s father can meet him/it for the first time? DO YOU/THEY HELP!?

My sons testify, and I don\'t progress. Indeed, we will probably separate, as soon as our son a little older is, and it is more affordable for both of us. His/its parents live states a couple away and are unfähig, because of the father, who has MANUSCRIPT and his/its mother, that looks after him/it and goes, to work, to support itself/themselves, to fly, must here. I have a dreadful irrational fear of flying and fly only two times in the last 10 years. It is very stressful and hard on me to fly. I hätte me also, to borrow vacation time, haven;t that is even still earned in order to need time away. , würde time sooner away, to fit my wishes anyway, needs, I feel for his/its parents because I get that they are entitled to meet her/its/their grandson. But I should much burden and debts daf for myselftroubles very much ür and must make ready? The fact, thereß I lands, \'t loves exactly, my BF still also carries wanting to mine doesn\'t go with, although that is not, the grandparents criticize. My BF is, bust as I also at the moment is. He/it wants to take the baby without me there, but this comes unmöglich not. He/it will be only 5 months old and will still nurse. Please give your insight. I fürchte this decision. Thanks....

through jeanette

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that is a dilemma, but i dont believes, that it is so gigantic, as it thinks u.

No. the grandparents jargon comes u. in 2
& No. - u-shud doesn\'t have 2 deals with the burden of flying, & definitely from u has shudnt 2 going n2 big debts.

the single appropriate answer, of which i can think, is this.... let, that brings the bf the child, at a later time. , er\'ll still b her/its/their grandchild, right,
if he/it is no breast feeding, AND if it is more affordable.

the childs older with it the bf shud b capable avoids 2 alone with him/it. U avoids the burden of flying & since u lived b that goes with the bf u lived you let 2 2 b pretend a family his/its Eltern-Sake in 4.

& altho un more certainly ppl does it, i personally doesn\'t last old wud at an airplane flight a 5 month anyway. 100 percent 3 voices saves to it! ! RSS

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