How did you feel if your mother was jealous on your baby?

I am 20 years old and the mother of a beautiful 5 months of old Babymädchens. My mother is 40 years old and has 4 children, I 20, my sister in 18, my other sister 7 and my small brother 2, this is a hard object of me, about ungef,ähr, to talk, but lately, it really disturbed me.. I places only auf\'t knows, as the fact is to be expected, that my mother doesn\'t take care of my daughter. As I was pregnant, thereß my mother very much supports, was, it wasn\'t a planned pregnancy, but I has feel both for itself no regret, my Verlobten and me, that my daughter was the biggest matter, that ever passed us, you to become very jealous started as she/it first saw the nursery,.. as soon as the baby was born, she/it seemed some days long gladly, but then her/its/their true colors went out. You/they würde comments do to advice me against the quiet, I know that this displaces, but she/it that successfully I. she/it did comments similarly "I have babies enough, everyone in the family has a baby, and I don\'t see what is the big deal". every time if I speak with my mommy at the telephone and my daughter comes up, like the fact shes, that of Ständig rolls), she/it either ignores it and changes the topic or the actions unimpressed and says "oh".. if she/it comes to visit, she/it hardly holds my baby.. she/it analyzes everything, which I do. She/it becomes for herself after her/its/their Fütterungsgewohnheiten inquires and if I mention everything, you like she/it doesn\'t likes applesauce, she/it will answer by saying, "oh thats really strangely.. or thats not normally for her/it/them, that were, so that picky. she/it never buys all für my daughter and rubs in the fact, that she/it, \'t, won because my daughter has "too much". she/it never has für me and me wouldn gebabysittet\'t, to ask her/it/them, disturbs, constantly reminds her/it/them sick at children for me this shes and will never babysit her/its/their grandchildren. Everything, which she/it does, is to be complained to me,.. over, as wearily is she/it and this, which not. It becomes this very much Annoys.. you, I understand that tired shes,.. I also is, but I place auf\'t * * * * * to everyone knows I! She/it lays down it as I attract my daughter, eventhough that she/it dresses nicely. Everything, which she/it does, is you for St bragsändig with my small brother.., as he/it dresses so well, how cutely he/it is,.. blah blah blah. She/it tells to me unhöfliche matters, that my daughter is cute, but I was cuter in her/its/their age.. and his/its to bad she/it looks like her/its/their father!! I places auf\'t understands which her/its/their probelm is. She/it rubs in mir\'m glmy fiance still is ücklich attractive that she/it offends how my daughter sees? It Stört she/it, that my fiance is a wonderful father and helps with all of cooking out, taking care of the baby.. and so on Shouldn\'t is she/it gladly, that her/its/their daughter is engaged to a big person? Everything, which she/it does, is to be compared itself/themselves with me. I see on that occasion like affectionate, when loving, and gro,ßzügig is my fiance mother.. and I place auf\'t understands, why my mommy can be not only a little bit of like it. My fiance mother loves to spend duration with my daughter.. she/it started even one week, you, about me from the first week, that my daughter will carry, work to help! My mother also is extremely jealously, if people compliment my daughter. I place so very much auf\'t-Sorge is more of the fact, that don\'t take her/it/them anytime, above the comments, that she/it does, in order to spend with her/its/their single grandchild. Does she/it have time, shopping and other places to go, but no time, to pass out a hour with her/its/their grandchild? She/it is fully from dumb apologies and is indenial. Everytime, that I to her erwähne, that I become injured, that she/it spends duration doesn\'t with her.. gets the wrong idea she/it and believes, that I want her/it/them to give us money or to buy gifts. Is not my blame, that she/it wählte, 18 years, to have my brother besides me. I babysit my 7 year old sister 3 times per week, however she/it doesnschcorrode it.Why \'t, is she/it so jealously on my baby and how did you feel if this was your mother?

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Sorrowfully, I didn\'t use any sales.. I has her/it/them in demand, and she/it is indenial. I Hafen\'t lived with her in 2 years and I doubt, thereß she/it me misses, because she/it always says, like shes gladly is I alone.. you comes as to it with excuses, why she/it often doesn\'t visit. You/they repeatedly this shes of children very much müd and sick. I guess, thereß I only must assume that buys her/it/them grip my baby sooner then, goes.

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Honey, your mommy sounds jealous to me. I love my grandaughter more than my own life. You/they kallows your mommy\'s indifference towards your daughter downfall önnen\'t the wonderful days, that you should enjoy with your baby. She/it is this for somebody, that it verpaßt. She/it had her/its/their life in her/its/their children, now genius,ßen you yours. Maybe simply maybe the fact can assume sie\'t, thereß she/it a "grandmother" is. Goes Let it and loves each second with your baby. Bemühen can assume more you itself the talk to limit the negative time with your mommy \'until her/it/them and can love. 100 percent 1 voices saves to it! ! RSS

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from Roland.... maybe you must ask her/it/them about that, what is the deal. Sometimes Leute-Peitsche from, if is somewhat wrong, and the was\'s, that of St she/itört, is completely different, than you would think. Es\'s posisble, that you miss for her/it/them. Maybe she/it believes if she/it tells you, thereß Sie\'wieder then a big work making, you won\'t need her/it/them. You/they kit even wishes önnte, that you still live with her (me), \'m, that you guess, is not can believe her/it/them, if overpowers you for itself feels, you, home retrogresses ll, and she/it can help.
If you don\'t feel comfortable asking for itself she/it what is wrong, maybe you only take the trouble to start, yo ureally help with it needs to ask her/it/them for "help", even if it is not anything. For example, "Mommy, what did you, in order to bring me, do to like applesauce?" Then can feel" her/it/them for itself like her/its/their "small girl, she/it still needs.

from Lulu Future note, sales are estimated very much if you write something, that long.

Is my mommy the type, in order to speak sh!t with other people, so that I would become she/it honestly dear, does something like to say you, "why do you do THIS"? to my face with it I exactly aufwärts could, you ask her/it/them why she/it feels the way, that she/it does. Therefore, it is stupid and unproductive to sit, itself too bemühen, to calculate, as and why other people present the way, that they do, as you could only ask her/it/them to declare itself/themselves.

It is completely possible that your mommy doesn\'t recognize, that she/it is a female dog so that I don\'t believe that you have everything to lose through being well received of this question head on it.

from Marilyn, she/it is unhappy in her/its/their own life, she/it needs in order to come out, you make some meaningful one in her/its/their life.
she/it should be more polite, but she/it found that babies are not the answer to accident,
she/it really needs somebody in order to show an interest in her.
her/its/their work, her/its/their clothing, her/its/their structure, something.
she/it needs more filling lives more one,

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a 5 mo. formula or breast milk, not Apfelso, only need oldße,

from Mommy to a lil-Jungen and expecting.... un not certainly what is your Mamas-Problem, it seems kinda strange although because most mommies are very glad and proud, if her/its/their daughters(responsible-Töchter, that are, are, that it pronounces like you, you have a wonderful baby, first wonderful baby particularly this, for them because you didn\'t mention your siblings because you had children, un guessing your the first, to do, so that, you must speak with her and must tell her/it/them, as you feel, and it provokes you, and it hurts, your feelings like, that she/it presents, she/it doesn\'t want anything to do with her/its/their wonderful daughter. ask maybe if only the three from y\'alles can eat to midday, that then one day and y\'all thereover can speak. maybe your mommy has only some problems her/its/their self, from which nobody weiß, however, depression maybe sounds idk it like something, is wrong with your mother from any reason maybe.