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I am a SWM 46 yrs old, parted, no children, I have an older brother, who will be 14 yr old son soon. Is single child and my brother for her/it/them & his/its wife always has him/it über-geschützt to a big degree of course, and type von babied he/it in it, to lift him/it. ICH\'d says, thereß he/it a more beautiful normal is, 13/14 yr old, big, good look, very clever, good personality, (no anger/tantrum-Probleme), and likes, so that many children give wii for his/its computer tons of time and the gamble of the different video games (xbox) from, playstation, and so on he/it go on alot because of spending a little one on the not-athletic side, and this, that I noticed a national phenomenon, the time, that plays with such games indoors. My question, my brother, is, because he/it was a baby, always has bathed him/it, and I noticed, während she/it at vacation here was, my brother comes to still start him/it with his/its shower or his/its bath to this day, it positions for him/it, towels, soaps and so on, takes care of the dirty clothing, then helps make him/it and so on deoderant with his/its clean clothing, powder, in the reason of some same stuff of Sie\'d for your baby or your toddler, only he/it still helps his/its son with 13, almost 14 yrs full age. I am sure, thereß the boy and my brother no nudity questions has, and he/it probably sees his/its son nakes. I think my brother, and maybe his/its wife, you still think of her/its/their son as this small baby or the toddler, I don\'t indicate anything sick or perverted at all, indeed I, hier\'d betted other my life, on which nothing sick goes with all, than the fact that later ages with this, he/it still helps his/its son with taking a shower or swimming. There are some matters like this and other matters there, of which I noticed,ß she/it she/it baby awfully the boy on it calms, and he/it is wise at maturities behind. I place auf\'t, jedermanns child criticizes, that methods großzieht, gladly. I remember before some years that I had a good friend there, who said,ß her/its/their twin sister breast one or both of her/its/their children fed, until they were like 10 years old, and had, obviously!!) alot from difficulties weening she/it then smooths!! some of these matters I is sure, families could bathe together for itself to culture, country to country, as is culture almost differently, that I am some cultures sure, and his/its common, countries where she/it all going to an usual Badhaus, river, pond, and so on immediately I have silence some countries its normal for mommies with him/it to breast feed, 12 years old, until 10 no old-age border or the limitation in order to do belongs. But I only am surprised, when what my brother does regarding it, to help his/its son with it to bathe with 13 or 14, bad is, incorrectly, Ursachenprobleme-developmentally and so on? Is no problem with all, thats, maybe why I ask. I always heare should not jump children into the bed, for example, and sleeps old you beyond the opinion 12 or 13 yrs with her/its/their parents, (adolescence), how it can cause confusion or ideas in sexuality confuse. All ideas ließen me please on it knows, thanks!!

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That seems one little extreme. Well i-Don\'t thinks, thereß through babying he/it she/it does each serious important psychological damage, but obviously he/it could have ask being capable to provide itself/themselves without mommy and daddy as an adult there. He/it only also becomes likely, you do women, that für him/it will provide, available. I imagine, thereß he/it definitely on some aspects of the tire and the development a more individually seperate of his/its parents behind will be. Maybe könnten has you a polite conversation with your brother and in a nice way proposes that es\'s-Zeit to cut the umbilical cord.

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through jmac, there is a very big gray area over that, what is right and wrong, and that, what works better, if parenting. it thinks ii, if this behavior continues, they become from the gray area in comes this \'yes, negative emotions will have this in your child area. You/they müssen starts to prepare him/it for the adult world. At the moment sie\'wieder an individual\'s work, that not fähig will be to be worked well alone because of the dependence.

I understand your worry through misteri. It gives sexual going probably switched on to nothing, but some bad one is. What are the parents for this Jungendenkens???? I thinks his/its own soap, Handt, sufficiently old \'s with 13/14, him/it, to getücher, and so on overprotecting he/it likes, this absolutely doesn\'t do him/it ANY favor. Do they do, this taps from matter with all other? Similar mealtime? It becomes for itself with his/its self development and his/its Fähigkeiten mixes in in order to be independent. Es\'s only not good.

idea bad through vinegar examiner SEHR! This type of matter was supposed to have held against.Yes, it can and already did sore maybe, the child mentally.They muß the string cut and leave, he/it builds an\'ll up.He, an adult is in only four years! If his/its friends him/it wouldn from it wüßten, \'t has all friends.
And no, it is not normally 10 years old to breast feed!