10 points. Believe, thereß he/it care of my baby is gotten?

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I live in NY. I am pregnant and nineteen years old 6 weeks. I live with my parents, and they become lowermost me and my babyützen, if he/it or she/it were born. I become also the pregnancy to college to theück strives for, and my mommy, sisters, grandparents and father will help everything with babysitting, preparation of all and loving of him/it or you. The baby würde on no manner, is neglected, if I get full care.

My baby\'s father is a fourty-Jahr old, and he/it is married to a baby old fourteen months. , I wußte this if together not we. he/it is with one local Ivy Leage-College very fixed an assistant professor. He/it is over me chosing on no manner supporting, to keep the baby. He/it texts I many times times a wk, that essentially tells me, what für a mistake I does, in that keeps I my baby.

Tonight, he/it told me, that he/it will do the whole child support matter, and he/it wants common care. He/it also said, thereß he/it for full costody wanted to fight. Only yesterday, he/it yelled at me in order to break off!

Do you can the fact that he/it never wanted the baby game in it whether or we won\'t have common care? I weiß, that he/it has more money than me, but likes me, that am said, that my WHOLE-Familie becomes dear over this baby. He/it or she/it become in groIs ßen hands of me and my family. Could he/it actually get ONLY full care because he/it has a work and his/its own home? Become the fact, thereß he/it in it at all on his/its women game felt dizzy? Also flat I, as it nursed, therefore, like können we common care has, if the baby is dependant on my nutrients? Think this, ANY m isöglicher way, the courts would choose me to have full care? This man is not the type of Vaterfigur, that wants to be I in my childs-Leben. It it a dreadful person. Plus, he/it wanted these baby dead persons!

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Also I know that I did a mistake in that I was with this man. Bemühen you itself please, not to do any judgments or impolite comments. Thanks.

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I have some of his/its texts about it to want an abortion also protected on my telephone. I dont weiß, whether this helps.

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Best answer chosen by voters

In this country, you need, smooths they normally would be a good lawyer, if the laws and the courts are on your side, in this case of your side.
But you still need a really good lawyer, because he/it could put in one, and the case would try to demonize you and you, to make look incompetent.
You/they need a lawyer, that intimidates his/its lawyer and has more experience in family care matters.
With a good lawyer for your side, he/it won\'t have any chance, although he/it could get visit rights and pays support, would have to.
If you have a bad lawyer, he/it could win. 43 percent 48 voices saves to it! ! RSS

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from Shannon, the court will probably grant common care. But you müssen transcriptions of the texts, that he/it sent you and encourages you to have an abortion, print out leaves. This becomes gro for him/itße time in court sore does.

If you are breast feeding, you will pump, will have to and will send the milk into a receptacle if the baby with him/it goes. 27 percent 30 voices

through? jayde no, there is not any reason, that a court nominates him/it, würde. 28 percent 31 voices